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Nature's Fireworks - Happy 4th of July - 2008
 

Chambers of the Heart
Hail and Hello, Fellow Travelers

I know, I know.

You've been missing me, and wondering where I've been, right?

Right?

;-)

Yes, I missed last month's issue. You're right. It was inexcusable.

But I have a good excuse. Really.

It's called "life shift". (Yes,with an "f".)

All good. But big. And this shift touches on every aspect of my life, just about.

It's called "new job".

Yes - you're right again, fellow traveler, I did have two part-time jobs. And now, I have a new part time job that's full-time for a few weeks, and then will cut back to truly part-time, once more.

Confused? Stay with me here...

I've begun using my legal secretary background again, and am filling in for vacationing legal assistants at a law firm with offices in two cities about 45 minutes from my home.

Yes, I miss my 2-minute commute, and I miss working at the library, and the Artisan Center.

But my hubby is happy with the new paycheck, and I am happy feeling as though I'm making more of a contribution.

I'm meeting new folks, and learning new things, and generally trying to continue to see myself as an artist while I dive back into the world of legal wisdom.

So... big changes in my schedule, and my 'free time', and my 'sleep time' and every time in-between.

But it's all good.

One of the first folks I met on this new job introduced herself to me, her eyes dancing, and said, "I know you! I read your newsletters!" Turns out, she's a relative of a friend of mine in Waynesboro (Hi, Martha and Tina!). Can I just tell you what a thrill it was to have someone in my new venue who knows the "real me" - the "artist me", as opposed to the "legal assistant" me?

I'm having a good time, and reminding myself of my commitment to going with the flow, and to seeing the blessings in any given situation.

I'm a lucky, lucky gal.


Special note: if you double click on the links below each article, you'll be magically whisked away to a wonderful image or bookmark I've selected to accompany each article. Sometimes it'll be a flower, sometimes, a card or bookmark - but always something seen 'in a different light'. Feel free to click these links - you can always come right back to the newsletter, but I really try to make them complement each other. Your very own multi-media display - right at your fingertips!
Peony Abstract - One of my bookmarks
 
Notes and Quotes


I've always been a fan of quotes. Short, pithy statements that underscore a point.

I began keeping a "Quotes" file several months ago, and will add to it anytime I come across a particularly appealing bit of verbiage.

My wonderful Aunt, Kitty, introduced me to Gratefulness.org, where you can sign up for a daily quote to be delivered via email. It's free, and most of the time, I read my quote the very first thing, and find myself nodding, and adding it to my collection. Many of the quotes you'll find in this edition of the newsletter have come from my subscription (free!) to Gratefulness Word for the Day.

If you're interested in signing up, I've posted the link at the end of this article. You can unsubscribe at any time, and I've never gotten anything from this group other than their wonderful daily doses of positivity and grace.

To sign up for Word for the Day from Gratefulness.org

Blue Trio
 

Can you hear them singing?
The Singing of Angels

A sample "Word for the Day", from earlier this week: There must be always remaining in every life, some place for the singing of angels, some place for that which in itself is breathless and beautiful. (Howard Thurman)


Another bit of brilliance ~

Faith is putting all your eggs in God's basket, then counting your blessings before they hatch. ~Ramona C. Carroll

I can't count that high...
 
Holiness Comes Wrapped in the Ordinary


Holiness comes wrapped in the ordinary. There are burning bushes all around you. Every tree is full of angels. Hidden beauty is waiting in every crumb. (Macrina Wiederkehr, O.S.B, from "A Tree Full of Angels")

Take time to recognize the billions of bits of brilliance that surround us, each and every day.

The glimmer of a dragonfly's wing.

The sheen of the morning sun on the dew of the green field.

The smell of a fresh-brewed cup of coffee.

The nuzzle of a small, trusting, furry being's head, as they seek a scratch behind the ears.

Turning on the radio JUST when they begin playing your favorite song.

Taking a bite of a perfectly ripe peach, and feeling the sweet juice go running down your arm.

Bits of brilliance.


Life is a gift... Enjoy the "present" :-)

Ordinary Miracle
 
 

Pink Explosion
Gratitude - A Way of Life

Feeling gratitude and not expressing it is like wrapping a present and not giving it. (William Arthur Ward)

I have oft been accused of being Pollyanna-ish. I am one of those irritating souls who will chirp positive things at you while you're kvetching about your latest speeding ticket.

"Well, perhaps being pulled over by that trooper saved you from being in a terrible accident down the road a bit." Folks have a tendency to look at me like I've just flown in from Mars, sometimes.

That's okay. I'm used to it.

I believe that too often, we feel positive things, and fail to express them. Someone will go out of their way to help us, and we neglect to thank them for their time and trouble. A store clerk will offer to arrange your flowers, or a waiter will deftly supply fresh bread, or a driver will let you merge, unbidden... So many opportunities to give thanks... to express gratitude. And we blow 'em. We get so focused on "the NEXT thing" that we fail to appreciate "THIS thing".



Miracles Happen to Those Who Believe
 
 
Kingdom of the Night

"No one is as capable of gratitude as one who has emerged from the kingdom of night. "(Elie Wiesel)

Balance - of light and dark, good and evil, fun and work, income and outgo.... only through experiencing darkness in its many guises do we fully come to appreciate the light when it bursts over the horizon.

When you see something beautiful, offer thanks. Tell the person whose skirt is an amazing color of aqua that you love it.

Compliment the person in front of you in line on their jewelry. Tell someone you like their bumper sticker. Tell a parent at a store that their child is adorable.

SHARE GOOD THINGS - it brings good things to you, as well as sending out that little wave of positive energy that will flurry along, and join up with all the other Pollyannas' little wavelets until it becomes a shining beacon of bright water, washing away the cares of the world, and winning a new dawn.


Bonesigh Arts... beauty, wisdom and vulnerability

Dark Kingdom
 

Gourdgeous...
A Shout Out to Noah
Talk about an unexpected blessing...

I had five minutes or so before I was back 'on the clock' after lunch last week, and I checked my email.

There was a note from the son of a woman who has become a wonderful cyber-friend and supporter. (You've heard me mention Terri, and Bonesigh Arts many times in this newsletter. I met Terri by writing her a fan email, telling her I'd stumbled across her work, and loved it. She wrote me back, and checked out MY work, and liked it... and, well.. the rest is history.)

My Uncle/Webmaster had just created a new page featuring some of my latest efforts, and I had shared it with Terri, almost on a whim. I asked her to check it out, if she had the chance, and to let me know what she thought.

The next day, I got an email from Terri's son, Noah. He wrote in an easy, breezy fashion.

He said he'd checked out the slideshow, and enjoyed it. That he was a fan of my work, and did I have any advice for a new photographer?

He thanked me for being an inspiration.

Basically, he made my week, all in the space of a 16 line email.

He saw something he considered beautiful. He took the time to offer thanks, and to make contact, and share that appreciation.

He touched my life in a lovely way that honors his momma's good teaching.

He reminded me, when I needed it most, that what I "do" isn't who I "am". And that I can do a job, and still be an artist. It doesn't have to be one or the other.

A wonderful connection was made.

I waited until the weekend to respond to his letter - I wanted to give it the honor and consideration it deserved. My reply turned into a monologue of epic proportions, and I was convinced that this poor, unsuspecting young man would recoil in horror at the sheer length of my response.

Instead, we've happily tapped response after response, and a new friendship has bloomed.

It occured to me, as I was writing to my new, enthusiastic friend, that I had met his mother through a fan letter that *I* had written - and here I was, responding to a fan letter her SON had written, 2 years later.

The circular nature of the exchange has appealed to me.


To See My Latest Slideshow, click HERE
 
The Road Before Us



A heart-felt 'thank you' to Ann, who had me come and visit the residents of the nursing home in which she toils diligently in HER new job as activities coordinator. What joy, to see her in her element, finally. One where attentions paid to those in her care are celebrated, and not shortened. It was a delight to meet the residents that day - one I shall remember always. I talked with the folks, who ranged in cognitive abilities from "The lights are on, but we're away for awhile" to "I'm here, young lady, what can I do for you?" I talked with these folks about my work, and my passion for photography, and flowers, and creativity, and, and, and...

Well... YOU get the idea.

It was a blessing, to be able to go there that day. Thank you, dear Ann, for that opportunity.

May you continue to flourish in your new calling.


Inner Sanctum


The Green Road...

 
 
 

A Pause for Reflection
Time for Reflection?

Where Flowers Bloom
 
Until Next Month, My Friends


May you reach for the highest goals, and not beat yourself up if you fall short. It's the reaching that's important.

All ideas expressed here, whether you find them wacky or wise, are my own. Take 'em for what they're worth. If they have a resonance for you, fine - write me, and tell me where we're alike, and what we share.

If they offend you, I apologize, and remind you that you are free to unsubscribe by clicking on the "unsubscribe" link below. Or, you could write me, and tell me where we differ, and why you found my thoughts offensive.

May life bring you blessings aplenty - and the grace and wisom to recognize them, and appreciate them. Don't always look for your blessings to come cloaked in grandeur and glory. Sometimes, the blessing is in the just-turned-green-while-you-were-approaching stoplight. Say "thanks, light!", and smile at your blessing.

I take this time to wish my Mom a happy birthday, last month. Mom, you've always been a guiding light for me. Thank you for your wisdom and your warmth. May this year be filled with delights for you.
Sometimes Angels are Garbed in Flowing Robes...

Dream...


Different Light Studio • 1249 Lyndhurst Road • Waynesboro • VA • 22980

         

 

 


The Second in a Series
 

How Baby Lights Are Made
Can WeTalk (...About Our Beliefs)?



Well hi there!

I know, it hasn't been a month yet, since my last newsletter. I just wanted to try to get back 'on schedule'... and I wanted to finish the conversation we were having last month.... er, two weeks ago. (You know how it is as you get older - if you don't finish what you start in a timely fashion, you just might forget what you were doing....)

For those of you who might have missed last month (or those who forget things quickly), I had been writing of conversations regarding spiritual or religious beliefs - how willing are we to share our thoughts - and under what conditions?

I'd been sent a video link by a friend that suggested that Oprah Winfrey's beliefs were un- or anti- Christian. I watched the video, and rather than being angered, I was uplifted. I worried about how to talk to my friend about our differences. At first I thought I'd just not mention it - we'd let it go.

But the Universe is big on getting me to face my issues, and it let me practice on this one with my good buddy.

(Note about the art in this newsletter: I'm subjecting you to more fractals - art generated by triangles and math, believe it or not. The program used to create the art you see here is free - it's called "Apophysis" and you can download it from the web at no charge. To begin each section, I'll post an 'original' image, and then in celebration of the dualities of life and the yin/yang of the world, I will post the inversion of the image. Both are beautiful, in my eyes, and both started from the same 'kernel of truth'... but demonstrate how just a couple of changes can completely re-interpret an image, and evoke a totally different response in the viewer.)

(Further note: The links that I include at the bottom of each 'section' will take you to flower art, in honor of the Spring that has finally sprung! In other words, click on them, and you'll get to see something besides fractals ;-)

Now... on with the show!



Magenta Flame
 
Walking Roads of Understanding



My friend called and asked what I though of the email she'd sent to me.

I gulped, said a quick prayer for guidance, and said that I'd been kind of surprised that she'd sent it to me.

She laughed, and said she knew I 'believed differently'. Did I believe in Heaven?

I told her.

Did I believe in Hell?

I told her.

Did I believe in reincarnation?

I told her.

And then I asked her what SHE believed.

She believes in the bible, and in Jesus as her Savior. But, she says, she's got friends who are gay. "That doesn't really bother me, I guess", she said. "It doesn't matter where ya put your parts." I laughed, delighted in the way she'd put it.

She then said she has a neighbor who says she's a witch. My friend said, "We just talk about other things."

How cool! She's got her beliefs, and they're strong... but they're not necessarily exclusive. They don't automatically shut out someone who believes differently. She's practicing the tolerance that her religion promotes.

We finished our conversation knowing far more about each other than we did when we started. I felt we had become closer because of our exchange.


Mom's Pink Impatien...

Baby Lights Inversion
 

Whirlwind Sunrise
Bridges Beat Barriers


I was warmed by our talk, and uplifted by the fact that we could share differing belief systems without turmoil or judgment.

I called my beautiful aunt to share my excitement, and to see if she thought it would be too controversial for me to address the subject in that month's newsletter. We talked of my exuberance over having shared something so intimate, but in a respectful, loving way.

I said I didn't want to discuss my beliefs, per se, in the newsletter - but to ask my readers if they had examined their own beliefs in the light of adulthood.

I said I wasn't going to try to convert anybody to my way of thinking - that I merely wanted to ask folks if they were willing to discuss this most personal issue - and if so, when, and under what conditions.

I left for work that day exhilarated by the morning's exchanges.



Elemental Blues....
 
Mulling Things Over


I thought about my topic choice for the newsletter.

I thought about it some more.

And then a couple of weeks passed.

I thought perhaps I might write about something else. Something less 'provocative'. Something less divisive. Something less volatile.

And then I had coffee and an aha! moment with another friend, and the experience convinced me to go ahead and 'risk' being open and inquisitive. To practice the same tolerance I had seen in my friend, and a willingness to 'own' my beliefs out loud (or in type, as the case may be).




Nature's Fireworks...

Whirlwind Inversion
 

Windswept Christmas Tree
No Man is an Island (Except on Sunday...)


I traveled to a friend's house for coffee. My friend is a delightful soul, full of light and possessing an open warmth that drew me to her right away, when we met several years ago. She's the type of friend where you can have long periods apart, and you just pick right back up when you next see each other, as if not a day had passed since you'd last spoken to each other.

She and I were talking about my proposed newsletter subject, and she immediately chimed in with her thoughts, delighting me with her willingness to share.

(Note: I'm deliberately not naming names here - I don't ever want my friends to think they - or their privacy - are being compromised by my insane intent to include them in my monthly musings.)

My friend mentioned how her beliefs had changed from when she'd been younger. Yet, though her beliefs changed, it didn't mean that the church she attended had changed - or that she was now attending a different one.

She said, "I'll sit in that pew on Sunday and wonder whether I'd be thrown out as a hypocrit, if the folks around me knew what I really believed. Sometimes I feel so alone."

I sighed with her. "You mean, the place where you're supposed to feel unity, and togetherness and brotherly love, is actually making you feel separate, and apart?"



Red Hot Poppy....
 
Would You Take the Risk?



Now, I know there are some of you who are thinking, "Well, she's just going to the wrong church. She needs to change congregations!"

Perhaps she should. Or not. There are lots of things (and people) who keep her going to her current place of worship.

I thought about what she'd shared - her sense of aloneness, and separateness.

It hit me, anew.

Perhaps there were others in that room-of-God who were feeling just as different, alone and cut-off as my friend. Folks who were just as sure they'd be culled from the rest, if their true beliefs were to be known.

Perhaps there were others drifting down that same river - and all that was missing was the knowledge that they were not alone.

But folks are so loathe to share their thoughts sometimes.

You take a risk when you share something that personal.

You risk offending someone who beliefs are different.

You risk losing a friendship, perhaps.

You risk learning that someone you love might think you're a bit nutso.

You risk upsetting your wee, little boat.

That's why so few people are willing to sit down and share a conversation on this subject.


But what do you stand to gain, if you are willing to take that risk?!

So much - so very much more.

Take that risk, folks. See where it might lead you!




Watercolor Lilac-Style

Windswept Tree In Snow
 

Rhythm Seen
Baby Steps and Big Leaps of Faith


By taking the risk of sharing something so integral to who you are, you open yourself, and your heart, to the light of the world. If you share your thoughts with respect and love, you may well be surprised at how very similar your thoughts are to those you thought of as different.

The key, I think, is the word "respect". You need to be willing to understand that just because someone believes differently than you, it doesn't mean they are wrong, or that you are right. Sometimes the best outcome is an agreement to disagree.

But sometimes, there is a bonding that strengthens ones support system.

Sometimes, there is a lessening of that 'apartness'.

Sometimes... you learn you aren't so very alone.



Daisy Wet
 
In The Spirit of Friendship


I got a lovely email the other day.

Leigh, a reader, wanted to share her friend's creative journey - and website - with me. She wrote, "Deb, I enjoy your newsletter each month and your stories about how you continue to grow as an artist. I want to tell you about my friend Lisa Rowley who, just shy of 50 years old began to take her art seriously enough to think about sharing it with others and seeing whether she can make some sort of living out of her paintings. A very low-tech person, Lisa spent a good part of last year trying to figure out how to get a web site done, how to make high resolution electronic images of her watercolors, and all about the process of making fine print reproductions. I am so proud of her and want to let others know about her � would you take a look at her work and if you feel moved to do so, mention it to your readers or give her some positive feedback. www.lisarowley.com "

Well, dear readers, I went to Lisa's website, and loved loved loved what I found there. Color, light, composition, movement and beauty - all on an easy-to-navigate site. Please take a look at Lisa's site, if you get a chance. The link is below, if'n ya wanna click it.

Leigh, thank you for your email, and for your friendly support of Lisa's efforts and art.

Lisa, thank YOU for taking that artistic leap, and the inspiration you provide the rest of us.

If you know of a site that you adore, and you'd like to have it featured in this newsletter, please let me know about it.








Lisa's Lyrical Link...

Rhythm, Inverted
 

At the Heart of It All
More Light, Please


As I've expressed here before - it's the connections that we make in this life that make the journey worthwhile.

If we can deepen those connections by sharing ourselves with others, then we've made the ride more enjoyable.

Someone who shares herself honestly, and delightfully, is Terri St. Cloud of Bonesigh Arts. She has beautiful art, and a beautiful heart, and she's loved by many.

You can see her work by going to www.bonesigharts.com - please do yourself a favor and check the site often. Her talented sons are always updating and refreshing it.

Another new-but-instant friend is Christie Pennington of TheLightspeakers.com. I was lucky enough to meet her, her lovely daughter, and her trusty chauffeur, Pat at an Orion event earlier this month, held by my friend Elisabeth Fitzhugh. Christie is a delight - a